lembas remote: manage remote: without YAML; a running service follows it

`lembas remote list | add | remove | enable | disable | mode | terminal`, with
`--json` printing {enabled, roots, max_mode, terminal}, for LLeMbas Desktop.
Writes go through the global config writer and keep comments.

The device's limits are now live getters over the remote: block, re-read when
config.yaml's stat changes. `lembas service` links even with remote work off
or no roots: it says roots: [] and refuses every session, directory and
terminal, so the instance can tell "no folder allowed yet" from "not running".
When what the instance was told changes, the link re-dials once nothing is
working, so `lembas remote add` or `enable` takes effect without a restart.
Harness spec 1.0.1 documents both.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

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